''A'' or ''THE''

CONSIDER THIS...

Being ''A'' Player in the Game,
Not ''THE'' Player in the Game

---There is a big difference in ones enjoyment of Life that depends on how one sees himself. This difference is denoted by A or THE. If one sees himself as THE player in the game, one is probably very subjective. He is probably very self-concerned and constantly sees Life as a me vs. them situation. He tends to think that everyone is out to get him in some way, and that it is important to beat others ''to the punch.''
---When one sees himself as A player [in the game of Life], he is probably more objective. He is broader in his thinking and allows others to be who they are. He doesn't seem to be as ready to ''rain on someones parade.'' He is a team player where ''what is good for ALL includes him, also, but his MAIN concern is the good of the team.''

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---Here Is A Real Distinction---

---Here, I feel, the real distinction has to be made. Everyone has his own Heart to follow and it is very important to be true to yourself. It is important to know what you, yourself, are doing and which game you are playing. I can almost guarantee there are times you feel like the ''leader'' and sometimes the ''follower.'' This is very natural, because sometimes you ARE. This is how we ''live and learn.'' It becomes very important to know, ''when to Hold 'em and when to Fold 'em.'' You begin to Know Yourself and Wisdom starts to take shape. You will know what is True and what is False and make better choices because of it.
---We ALL have what we need inside of Ourselves, and through our interactions with one another, we get to Know what it is. Be ''flexible'' and be aware of the things and situations that brings out the best in you. Know what you really care about and where your ''Love Lies.'' Know the difference between fleeting happiness and that which lasts. Be Well.